The female G-spot is legendary, but what about the male? It turns out there is one too. In this article we will tell you where it is and how to stimulate it correctly.
What is the male G-spot
Oh yes, the male G-spot is real. This is not fiction and not an attempt to attract as many readers as possible. Another question is what is more correct to call it point P. And to most of the general public, it is generally known as the prostate.
The prostate is located between the base of the penis and the rectum, a walnut-sized gland that a man needs to produce sperm. The secret is that there are a lot of nerve endings in the prostate, which makes it an ideal point for maximum pleasure.
This, by the way, is confirmed by research: scientists have found that prostate orgasm causes 12 muscle contractions, while penile orgasm - only 3-5 contractions. In other words, if you connect the prostate to the sexual game, a man can get two (or even three) times stronger orgasm than usual.
How to prepare for a search
Many men are full of prejudice associated with anal sex. Although stimulation of the prostate, of course, cannot change the orientation of a heterosexual (and if it can, then he is not so heterosexual after all). Therefore, if you want to look for point P, first of all you need to get the consent of your partner. Additionally, experts advise telling in detail what you plan to do so that he can make an informed decision.
Since the anus does not produce natural lubrication, it is important to ensure that you have a water-based lube on hand (preferably flavorless and odorless, so as not to accidentally provoke skin irritation). Also, make sure to file your nails to avoid damaging the delicate area, or at least use a glove as a barrier.
Stimulation Rules
So now you know where point P is and your man doesn't mind trying. What's next? It can be difficult for beginners to decide on the right actions on their own, so take on board the following techniques:
- "come here" movement.By making movements with your index finger, as if you are asking someone to come, you can stimulate the prostate gently enough so as not to scare your partner, but at the same time actively enough to give him new sensations. Start slowly and then increase your speed.
- Circles and wiggles.Circular and wiggle movements also work well, and their speed should also be gradually accelerated. Keep in mind that putting too much pressure on the prostate can cause an urge to go to the toilet, so it's great for a man to empty his bladder before sex.
- Sex toys.If you don’t want to go anywhere with your finger, but you want to experiment, use massagers for anal games. With them, in the same way, you can vary the speed and type of vibrations, so that the partner does not lose anything, but even vice versa.
In conclusion, we recall once again that body parts do not have a sexual orientation, so a couple can safely practice anal sex in both directions. And we note separately that if in the process the partner says that he does not like it and needs to stop, you should listen to him. In the end, we are all different. You can try it the next time it's ready again, but for now, do something that always gives you pleasure.